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In the world of dating apps, the internet, and our need to always stay connected via social media, dating can seem like a never-ending cycle of talking and never making it past the second date.
When you ask friends or family how they met “the one,” chances are they found their partner at school, work, a restaurant, or anywhere out in the world. Those couples have been together for over twenty years or sometimes more.
So, what’s stopping you from meeting that special someone?
One question that seems to always be on all our minds is how to find our soulmate in a world filled with technology. Be sure to keep reading this guide on how to find your soulmate in the age of the internet.
Expanding Your Horizons
One of the most liberating elements of online dating is the fact that you are not tied down to people who are geographically close to you.
Before internet technology, people dated within the places that they were able to visit. Meaning they were typically limited to making connections with people in their local communities. Sometimes they would branch out and meet new people on planes, trains, or other public transport. Yet, without the luxuries of technology that we know and love today, keeping up with a long-distance relationship was much more difficult.
Now with the ability to meet someone online, you can find your soulmate almost anywhere. All you need to do is bump into them somewhere on the internet. Instead of looking to meet someone while out, you can let technology do the work for you. Dating apps have made it so much easier to meet a greater variety of people from all over the world.
You might find it surprising, but technology can help you to attract your soulmate more effortlessly.
For example, when you sign up for a dating website, you reveal lots of personal information about yourself, such as your likes and interests. Some dating websites will help match you with people interested in the same things as you. Once you are matched with someone who has the same interests, you can begin the flirting process.
Even if you are just on social media, you can find other people who have similar interests as you do. These people are potential candidates for being your soulmate even though they are not on a specialized dating app. All you need to do from your end is form a deeper connection with them on social media and see where that leads.
Maneuvering Internet Chaos and finding love
When you think about a time before smartphones, how did people who wanted to date keep up with each other? Did they send a letter, fax, or call over the landline? Chances are they did all those things (and more) to get in contact with someone they were interested in.
Yet, in our world filled with so many ways to get a hold of each other, communication is instantaneous but can also be confusing and overwhelming, especially when trying to find true love. It can be very difficult to dig through all that internet chaos searching for that special someone.
Courtship in the modern age can be very tricky. There is a fine line between pursuing a relationship and cyber stalking someone. You should remember that when you are first meet an individual online, sending too many text messages or frequently calling might come off as too aggressive or desperate.
If someone is being unresponsive to your messages, they might have lost interest. It is better not to push or overthink the situation as that might just make things worse. Instead, when trying to decide the right amount of communication with a new love interest, play it cool with the communication, and you might actually see a new relationship begin to blossom.
Strive to build that online connection first.
A love coach will tell you that relationships start by first building a connection. When you meet someone online, you should first chat with them for a period of time, to gauge whether there is any natural chemistry (or connection) between the two of you, before seeking to meet in person.
During this initial discovery phase, you can find out their likes, interests, and even things that they don’t like. You will find that this is an important phase of getting to know each other at a deeper level.
Building that strong online connection first may give you a better chance at finding love when you finally decide to meet in-person. You might find that you have more to talk about with someone that you took the time to build a relationship with virtually compared to someone you decided to meet right away.
There are just so many ways that technology can come in handy when it comes to building that deeper connection with that special someone you just met online.
Choose to Be Picky before meeting them in-person.
It’s obviously important to be picky about the person you may end up spending the rest of your life with. Being picky does not mean that you need to be shallow when picking out a potential partner. For example, if they wear an article of clothing that you don’t like, you don’t need to immediately remove them from your possible partner list.
There are so many possible choices when dating online. You can literally choose from hundreds of different matches just in your area alone. Any one of them could turn out to be your soulmate! Isn’t that exciting? So, instead of settling for the first person you meet online, choose to be picky with who you give your attention to online.
Just make sure you take your time and do all your due diligence before choosing to meet them in-person. Remember that we live in the information age, meaning your next date is only one Google search away, so there is no need to be desperate. You need to be confident about the people you’re talking to and choosing to go on dates with meeting them in the online world first.
Thanks to technology, dating using the internet has become one of the most convenient ways to meet people. You could potentially meet your soulmate without going online but that will take much more effort. So, spend your time crafting a perfect online dating profile instead. The payoff could happen much faster.
You might find that you are meeting your soulmate in your pajamas on a Sunday morning while eating leftover Chinese food. While that might not sound like the most attractive thing, it is a reality for many people these days. Dating online has become so convenient because you don’t need to leave your house. You can scroll through an endless number of potential matches without getting up from your couch.
Have Patience and Staying Positive
Even though there are many benefits to dating in the technology age, it can still be a cruel and vicious cycle. You might find yourself talking with someone and building a connection online simply to be let down a few weeks later. Unfortunately, that is the truth with any type of dating until you find your soulmate.
So, instead of getting down in the dumps about a failed relationship, think of it as a blessing. You are now one step closer to finding your soulmate. Even if that means drudging through the online dating world until you find that special someone. After all, you never know who could be just another swipe away!
Discovering How to Find Your Soulmate in the Technology Age
The internet is not going anywhere, and it certainly will not solve all our problems. When looking for true love, whether in the physical world or digitally online, you are still faced with similar challenges.
However, you don’t have take this love journey alone. There are love coaches out there who can equip you with the right tools to help attract your soulmate to you. As a rule, women who radiate inner self-confidence, can and will attract their soulmate, whether online or at the grocery aisle. A reputable and renowned love coach like Lucy Shahjahan can help you unleash that inner goddess. Attracting your soulmate to you, instead of grinding through the dating circles on and offline.
So, if you’re ready to get help finding your soulmate, you can book a call with us today. We will be there to guide you in finding your soulmate the right way, even in this chaotic world filled with technology.